Excerpts ~ Being Silent

 

 

I left my home in California one summer to go on a driving tour of some of the most sacred sites in the Southwest, seeking a deeper relationship with my own spirituality through the spirituality of place. Everywhere I went--the Grand Canyon, Sedona, Monument Valley, Canyon de Chelly, Chimayó--there was one common thread to the spiritual experience I sought.

 

People would not shut up.

 

When I got back home, I met up for dinner with my best friend Shannan to tell her about my trip.

 

"So," she asked. "Did you work on the book you had planned?"

 

"No, I got a new idea for a book while I was gone," I told her, lips contorting in faintly disguised disgust. "It's going to be called America, Shut the Hell Up."

 

Not a very spiritual response, I'll admit. But it wasn't as if people were talking about the magic of the place or the spirit dwelling within or sharing their heart-felt responses. Most conversations that intruded upon my consciousness were about the most mundane things, empty words polluting the air. One case in point: the man who, while walking down an ancient ladder into a more ancient Native American kiva where even more ancient Native American spiritual rituals were held, was telling his companion about the great deal he got on his Nikes at the outlet store.

 

"A fractured rainbow
Is staining under thunder clouds with
Cathedral quiet."

 

"Cathedral quiet," James Kirkup wrote, and in that simple pairing of words, he illustrates that there is something religious about silence. "Would you talk this much if you were in a church?" I wanted to ask them. And then, "And when are you not in a church?"


I could write a book.

 

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If you ask us, "What is silence?" we will answer, "It is the Great Mystery. The holy silence is God's voice."
--Ohiyesa

In the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive and deceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness.
--Mahatma Gandhi

God's one and only voice is silence.
--Herman Melville

Silence is not an absense of sound bur rather a shifting of attention toward sounds that speak to the soul. In a moment of silence you may feel your heartbreat or hear your breathing. Silence is a positive kind of hearing, which requires turning off the know that tunes in to active, literal life and tuning on the one that amplifies the movements of the soul.
--Thomas Moore

Only in the oasis of silence can we drink deeply from our inner cup of wisdom.
--Sue Patton Thoele

There is something greater and purer than what the mouth utters.
Silence illuminates our souls,
whispers to our hearts,
and brings them together.
--Kahlil Gibran


Through the orifice of silence,
the whole geyser of Bliss,
perpetually shoots up and flows over the soul.
--Paramahansa Yogananda

If you love truth, be a lover of Silence. Silence like the sunlight will illuminate you in God and will deliver you from the phantoms of ignorance. Silence will unite you to God.
--Thomas Merton

We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence.
--Mother Teresa

Not only a truer knowledge,
but a greater power comes to one
in the quietude and silence of a mind
that, instead of bubbling on the surface,
can go to its own depths and listen.
--Sri Aurobindo

Silence is the language of God; it is also the language of the heart.
--Dag Hammerskjold

Not merely an absence of noise, Real Silence begins when a reasonable being withdraws from the noise in order to find peace and order in his inner sanctuary.
--Peter Minard

Learn to get in touch with silence within yourself, and know that everything in this life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from.
--Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

Silence is the great teacher, and to learn its lessons you must pay attention to it. There is no substitute for the creative inspiration, knowledge, and stability that come from knowing how to contact your core of inner silence. The great Sufi poet Rumi wrote, ''Only let the moving waters calm down, and the sun and moon will be reflected on the surface of your being."
--Deepak Chopra

The holy time is quiet as a nun
Breathless with adoration.
--William Wordsworth

To find God there must be calm within, certain senses must be hushed. Tossed around as we are, if God wishes to speak to us, his voice, small and still, will be lost in the hubbub of our daily lives; the rackets and noise drowning our minds will prevent his penetration into that seclusion we call 'heart'-the living witness of that life in us which is most sacred and most true; the life we call inner and spiritual.
--J.M. Dechanet

Listening to the eternal involves a silence within us.
--Thomas Kelly
 

 

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